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New definition of relationships

Updated: May 24, 2021


Examining every aspect of a mother-in-law relationship is a very personal task for everyone at their level. But it is true that this relationship does not feel natural, affectionate, intimate or emotional like other relationships. We do not get this relationship from birth. Therefore a compromise and constructive effort from both sides is necessary for the smooth relationship of mother-in-law.

 

Examining every aspect of a mother-in-law relationship is a very personal task for everyone, at their own level. But it is true that this relationship does not feel natural, affectionate, intimate or emotional like other relationships. We do not get this relationship from birth. Therefore a compromise and constructive effort from both sides is necessary for the smooth relationship of mother-in-law.

If the mother-in-law does not hesitate to give financial responsibility to the daughter, then it is not necessary that you give full responsibility to your daughter-in-law. A second solution may also be found. Because before assigning responsibility for any task, it is also necessary to skill the daughter-in-law. Seek advice from your daughter-in-law. Make the daughter-in-law realize that she too is a part of this house.


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This is indeed the truth. The daughter-in-law is your heir, not your son. When the son takes responsibility for his father, daughter-in-law. But if she is not ready to take such a big responsibility yet, then make daughter-in-law daughter and help her take responsibility. If there is any mistake, explain it with love. And the daughter-in-law should see the mother-in-law.



The mother also scolded her while explaining. The methods may be slightly different, but the intentions are mostly noble. The melody in these relationships is necessary at all costs to strengthen the peace of the family.

If we look at the causes of discord in a mother-in-law relationship, we find that most of the causes of discord are mental and not economic. Mother-in-law exists as an eternal tradition in our society. Most relationships are full of bitterness. In normal Indian families, at the time of the girl's upbringing, in childhood, the girl's gentle mind is taken fearful of the mother-in-law. A dangerous form of mother-in-law is presented.



After marriage, the girl's mother-in-law may be simple and tender or affectionate, but it is not easy for the girl to be free from old prejudices. The girl also sees the plot in the simplicity and spontaneity of the mother-in-law. In such a situation, bitterness and tension in the relationship is not surprising. It is therefore important that parents never fill such misconceptions in the immature brains of children.


Just as the daughter-in-law weaves dreams of her new life with her in-laws, so does the mother-in-law have many hopes and dreams about her daughter-in-law. Since the birth of a son, a mother begins to cherish dreams about her daughter-in-law. There are no negative thoughts about daughter-in-law in those dreams. But as soon as the daughter-in-law enters the house, gradually the mother-in-law starts feeling insecure about her future. She fears losing her rights over the son, for which she is not mentally prepared.



When the daughter-in-law comes home, the daughter-in-law also has some rights, but the mother-in-law is unable to share the standing building on the basis of her years of hard work, sacrifice and difficulties. There is a generation gap between the two. The mother-in-law's tensions disrupt the peace of the whole family. Due to this stress, father, son and children too are unable to live without being affected. If not shown wisely, every day discord makes the joint family so hollow that one day the family structure collapses.


Economic reasons have also increased greatly among the reasons affecting Saas-Bahu relations. It has become common for dowry to harass daughter-in-law. Furthermore, hardly any mother-in-law can approve expenses such as cuts in the economic rights of the household, assign expenses to daughters-in-law. This feeling of mistrust makes emotional relationships merely formal.


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Examining every aspect of a mother-in-law relationship is a very personal task for everyone at their level. But it is true that this relationship does not feel natural, affectionate, intimate or emotional like other relationships. We do not get this relationship from birth. Therefore a compromise and constructive effort from both sides is necessary for the smooth relationship of mother-in-law. If mother-in-law is hesitant to give financial responsibility to the daughter.

Examining every aspect of a mother-in-law relationship is a very personal task for everyone at their level. But it is true that this relationship does not feel natural, affectionate, intimate or emotional like other relationships. We do not get this relationship from birth. Therefore a compromise and constructive effort from both sides is necessary for the smooth relationship of mother-in-law.


If the mother-in-law does not hesitate to give financial responsibility to the daughter, then it is not necessary that you give full responsibility to your daughter-in-law. A second solution may also be found. Because before assigning responsibility for any task, it is also necessary to skill the daughter-in-law. Seek advice from your daughter-in-law.


https://www.merivrinda.com/post/is-it-necessary-to-get-married


Make the daughter-in-law realize that she too is a part of this house. In fact, this is also true. Not your son, daughter-in-law is your heir. When the son takes over the responsibility of his father, his wife will take over your responsibilities, saying that she is your son's half-wife, the wife is her right and responsibility as well. But if she is not yet ripe to take on such a big responsibility, then make daughter-in-law a daughter and help her take responsibility. If there is any mistake, explain it with love.


And the daughter-in-law should see mother-in-law. The mother also scolded her while explaining. The methods may be slightly different, but the intentions are mostly noble. The melody in these relationships is necessary at all costs to strengthen the peace of the family.



 
 
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